We had a good day!
I was beginning to feel rather down and helpless because of Sandy’s situation and not knowing at all how to help her or how to even begin with behavior modification. I did all the usual things and it wasn’t working for Sandy because her situation is not the norm. Last night I was quite upset about it actually and in tears at one point.
There was one small positive thing last night just before bed that made me feel a little better and like there was still hope. When I brought Sandy up to bed, she didn’t put the brakes on at the stairs so I didn’t have to do the usual coaxing and bribing to get her up there. She walked up the stairs on her own, very slowly of course, but she still did it without any drama. That made me feel a smidgen better but then when I put her in her expen and went into the washroom she started to carry on (whining, pawing at the expen, panting) until I came back into the bedroom and then she settled down about 5 minutes later.
Today we had a really good day! We took Sandy GeoCaching with us so when we got home she was tuckered out. After we had a snack and Sandy relaxed we went through the usual routine we’d go through as if we were leaving. I gave her a Kong, told her “bye, bye baby, back in a while” (that’s what I always say when I’m only going out for a short time), we locked the door and drove out of the driveway and went a short distance down the road. We walked quietly back to the house and I peaked into a window where I could see her but she was unlikely to see me (we set a ladder up before hand so I could do this) and she was just chewing on her Kong.I checked on her about every 5 minutes and everytime she was chewing on her Kong. I stuffed it quite loosely because I wanted to see what she would do when she was done the Kong but a treat got stuck inside it and it lasted her the whole 30 minutes we were gone. But, that was good anyway, she had a good experience while we were gone and she didn’t carry on at all. Although when we came in she was chewing a bit more intently on her Kong than I think she would have normally but that’s ok too if she was releasing her stress on the Kong. After I was home for a few minutes she layed down with her Kong and was more relaxed than she was when we first came in.
She also wasn’t crated during this time. She’s not ready to go back in her crate yet but if I can get her used to being alone uncrated and if I can feel secure about leaving her uncrated than maybe we don’t need to worry about the crate anymore. We’ll see!
So, today was a good day all around! We had fun GeoCaching and Sandy stayed by herself for 30 minutes without getting upset. We’re making progress, it’s baby steps, but that’s the way it is. I’ll still have to board her when I go to work for a a while I’m sure, but that’s ok, as long as we’re working towards Sandy being able to stay home alone again then I can see a light at the end of the tunnel. We’ll do the same thing every day, more than once a day if we’re able to and hopefully Sandy will be back to normal in a month or two.
Something else I did was a few days ago I stopped giving her the PPA that she was taking for her incontinence. I give it to her as needed and in the past she’s only needed to take it for a few weeks or a month and then she doesn’t need it for a while, but this time she’s been on it a lot longer than in the past. The side effects of PPA are: nervousness, restlessness, excitability, irritability, panting etc. A few sources that I read said that it increases the “fight or flight” response so maybe, just maybe, Sandy’s over reaction to whatever caused our current issue was due to a side effect of the PPA. Where she may have tolerated whatever it was before or would have only reacted a bit, instead she completely over reacted and her “flight” response was magnified. It might not be why we’re where we are right now but it might be, so for now she’s not taking the PPA. I’d rather have a leaky dog than a dog who cannot stay alone.




























